What would you do, to bring happiness to your Family...?

Nothing. I am here. That is enough. Everyone comes in to incarnation to experience, and love may be part of that, but experiencing life in form is why we come. I am love. I don't have to love. Love infuses us at our very core. If that is obscured by unconsciousness, in some, then it is for the unconscious to become conscious. Awareness knows.