Recurring Dream interpretation: Only People With Dream Experience Please!?

The first thing that came to my mind when I read your narration is: the girl has experienced a very painful event in her life and right now she is very lost and nearly giving up. she doesn't have anyone to talk to and she desperately needs someone to hold on to or else, she might lose herself totally. I think the reason why you are dreaming about her in this way is because you are aware of her suffering but she does not know that you are around. You want to help her because you want to let her feel how you feel about her. But then you are afraid to do it because you do not want to get hurt. You are afraid that the person in the picture is still the one in her heart and you cannot accept that. Your fear of losing her because of what she is going through right now is the only reason why you cannot extend your hand to reach out to her. if it is still not too late, go to her. She needs your love right now and if you really do love her then be there for her during her lowest time, and never expect anything in return. You will be glad you did it.